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So once in a while you meet someone who has an effect on you. By that I mean that whenever they are around, you feel a little bit different. This recently happened to me. I actually met this guy several months ago through my group of friends (he would be with the group every so often). We always had these really good conversations because we are both major audiophiles (music-lovers/music-obsessed) and that’s really all it was: good conversations. Well time passed and

So it has been a LONG time since I was dating someone casually and had to break it off. In fact, it’s been several years, as in maybe before college. Because since then it has either been a serious boyfriend or if I was casually dating, that guy was the one breaking it off with me.

So, let’s take both examples: in the case of a serious boyfriend, if you’re together for a long time and you start to grow apart, the chances are that both sides ar

Hormones are a funny thing. First of all, you can’t control who you are attracted to. Lucky for me, I learned in high school not to let hormones make any decisions regarding a relationship (to have one or not) but they always narrow down your choices of people. In other words, you can be attracted to someone who is an ass and choose not to become involved with that person; BUT if you’re not attracted to someone at all, you can’t force yours

I am a talker. I love to converse, especially about topics I’m interested in (travel or music for starters). To me, words are a tool. I use them to argue, to make people laugh, to get people to agree with me, to get people pumped up, to cheer people up, to help work through issues (work, relationships, whatever).

But I also have a nervous habit where I just keep talking and in romantic situations, this is not a good thing.

So something I have noticed lately is that almost all songs regarding love/romance/relationships fall into 4 categories:

1) the person singing is sad because they miss the person they were in a relationship with

2) the person singing is bitter because they either got dumped or they dumped someone who did something crappy (cheated, etc.)